Sunday, June 04, 2006
*shakes head*
1st thing 1st.. i wld like to apologise to steph.. sorry gal.. i wasnt able to attend ya 21st bday party and i'm definately sorry that i didnt even notify u. I hoped u had a great 21st bday.. and nt like me.. i didnt even get to celebrate it. 21 yr old liaoz. grow up le. cannot think like a little gal anymore. hee.. alrite. once again happy birthday. we will see each other soon.
2nd thing i wanna highlight. to a fren of mine. KA. I noe u are very affected.. in this world, there's really no such thing as balance or equal treatment. u do something, u cant expect the same in return. The world is unfair 1 la. itz either u are at the recieving end or the giving end. So chill.
Hmmm.. juz wanna say.. to everyone, wat is happiness? or rather hw do we archieve happiness? or hw can we make our life happy? hmmm.. to me, i try to think of the positives.. cos i noe.. when one keeps thinking abt the negatives and cannot put those negatives behind their back, these negatives will juz keep on accumulating. Snowballing effect.. gd things are easier to forget.. bad things aint.. but if we keep thinking abt the bad things and nt the gd ones, hw can 1 be happy? easier said than done.. but itz not unarchievable. wats the pt of taking all the bad things out and keep talking abt them? it only makes life more miserable.. the old phrase..'let bygones be bygones'.. but once again, eaiser said than done.. finally.. whether one is happy or not. depends alot on individual. the way we think. and the way we look at things.
hence i conclude.. happiness is up to us. whether we want it or nt. Ppl can try to make one happy, but ultimately if one doesnt wanna be happy, den no matter hw much other ppl try, itz futile.. do u agree with me my dear readers out there?
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